And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God. – Philippians 1:9-11
Through this verses, it is easy to understand what Paul think most important for the church members. That is love. That will be abundant in knowledge and depth of insight. I think this means we cannot just love others as well as ourselves. We need to be in knowledge and depth of insight to love them properly. This is not easy, rather require to consider ourselves and themselves with the circumstances more. Also, we need to learn about what is love itself by reading bible and learn from the life of Jesus and practice it in real life. The results from abounded love produces capability to discern what is the best and to be pure and blameless. I want to be a person who Paul pray for.